• Books I’m reading and re-reading

    August 9, 2010 // 2 Comments

    Here are the list of books I’m currently reading or re-reading (with links):

    Untamed (Alan Hirsch)

    The Screwtape Letters (C.S. Lewis)

    Mere Morality (Lewis Smedes)

    Exclusion and Embrace (Miroslav Volf)

    Free of Charge (Volf)

    I’d like to read Volf’s other book The End of Memory some time in the near future…

    I’m curious to hear… what are you reading lately? Anything you’d recommend?

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  • Andy Crouch: The Creative Edge

    August 5, 2010 // 0 Comments

    Several weeks ago I blogged about Andy Crouch’s talk he gave on the use and misuse of power, which he delivered at Biblical Seminary. Andy discussed the beautiful painting entitled “The Banjo Lesson” as a backdrop to our discussion on leadership and power.

    Biblical recently posted the video of his talk on their site. I highly recommend you listen to the section entitled “The Creative Image” (part 2) on this page. It’s worth your time.

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  • Leadership lessons from my computer keys

    August 3, 2010 // 3 Comments

    A few days ago I was reflecting on what healthy leadership looks like. In mid-thought, I happened to look down at the left side of the keyboard on my MacBook and I saw these keys:

    control

    shift

    option

    command

    caps lock

    the space bar

    The thought hit me instantly: these keys are often the posture, style and/or response of most leaders:

    control: controlling the situation (people, outcomes, programs, results, information, etc). When the leaders control, they believe they are leading well.

    shift: wrestling with the status quo leaders realize it is vital to shift (i.e. their mindsets, paradigms, approach, vision, style, role and/or responsibilities, etc) in order to see the great mission accomplished, even at their own expense.

    option: keeping options open (i.e. listen to all sides, brainstorm different outcomes, ask lots of courageous questions, consider different action steps, etc) in order to come to a decision.

    command: command that people listen to them and respond to their orders as the leader see fit.

    caps lock: SHOUT AT OTHERS, MAKING SURE THE LEADER’S OPINION IS VOICED SO FOLLOWS KNOW WHO IS IN CHARGE. AS A RESULT, MORALE IS LOWERED AND PEOPLE FEEL LOCKED IN BY FEAR AND WORRY THAT THEY MIGHT MAKE THE LEADER MAD.

    the space bar: step back – either out of wisdom or fear – and assess the situation before acting. (This could be either positive or negative, depending upon the situation).

    Leaders: which key do you use most often in your leadership?

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  • Baptism: we need more cowbell

    August 2, 2010 // 4 Comments

    Yesterday we held our Renew baptism celebration.

    Wow.

    Now, that was a baptism celebration. By far, the most meaningful baptism service I’ve ever been a part of. Nobody walked away without noting that the Spirit was actively at work that morning. There were many things that made the morning unforgettable.

    First, we decided to have our baptism celebration outdoors. We believe that if its a public declaration of yielding to God’s work in our lives let’s do it in public. We held the service at a public park that contained a portion of the Perkiomen Creek that’s calm enough and deep enough for baptisms. My wife pointed out that a river is a perfect metaphor: the water is moving. It’s not stagnant water. It’s flowing water is fresh and its not the same river for each person being baptized. It is renewed each moment.

    We set up our camp chairs and towels nibbling on donuts as we sat on the bank of the creek.

    But the forecast called for rain straight through from early Sunday morning through Monday night. I worried and fretted about the forecast Saturday night and early Sunday morning wondering what we should do with the rain (hold it anyway? reschedule? if so, when? and if we did reschedule what would we do Sunday morning?) None of that was necessary as the rain held off until 1:30pm and we actually had some sun poke through the clouds for a beautiful morning.

    Second, it was a time of celebration. I’m a big believer that what you celebrate is what you care about. I must admit: one thing that bugs me about baptism services I’ve attended in my lifetime is how the formality of the event eroded any sort of permission to celebrate. I mean, really celebrate. Let loose. Go nuts. Belt it out. Angels are doing back flips in great joy because of what’s expressed in baptism…and we all we can muster is a polite golf clap?

    It just doesn’t seem right.

    The truth about baptisms in our churches is this: we need more cowbell.

    Sometimes I get some men who come up to me and say, “You know, I’m just not into expressing emotion.”

    Nonsense. I’ve seen those same men sit on their couch on Sunday afternoon and watch television where men wearing helmets and tight white pants carry a ball across a white line and scream and yell and jump around the room like a middle school slumber party… We all know how to celebrate. It just depends on what’s important to us.

    So I told our community we only have one rule at baptisms: no golf claps allowed. (Okay, maybe we have another rule as well: no guys in speedos). Celebrate how you wish, but we will not be silent. We will not be polite and quiet. We don’t need to manipulate emotion or do anything unnatural in our celebration, but we are a people called to lives marked by celebration. I told them that I didn’t care if they joined people in the water, gave high-fives, whistled, cheered, jumped up and down or blew a vuvuleza – we just needed to celebrate new life that is being made public.

    And we did.

    People brought air horns and shofars (ram’s horns) and drums. When those being baptized were brought up out of the water you should have heard the holy commotion. I loved it. And so did everyone else. The matter at hand was worthy of its celebration.

    Third, we were slated to baptize two people yesterday morning. Each of the two participants wrote out their faith story ahead of time – not ancient history, but what God was doing recently, in this season of their lives, and why they believed that this was the time to be baptized. I read both of these stories ahead of time – stories of life change and evident marks of grace in their lives. Saturday night as I read their stories I was crying like a baby. Each participant picked out who they wanted to baptize them and how they wanted to read their story as they were getting into the water. After their stories were read, their house church (and anyone else who’s walked with them closely) was given permission to speak into their lives. The stuff was powerful.

    “Karrie, I have seen so much growth in you this past year…”

    “Brian, I’m so grateful for the way you are honest about your faith. It inspires me.”

    “Karrie, I remember how fearful you were when I first met you and how you’re moved to experience freedom as a follower of Jesus.”

    “Brian: I remember when you weren’t a Christian. You’ve changed so much. I pray you lead others to Christ.”

    Many were wiping tears from their cheeks. It was hard to take it all in: the beauty of having our community speak gracefully into the lives of people who are growing to be more like Jesus on a day they officially declare they belong to Him. I tried to say something about Brian’s journey of faith before I baptized him. I couldn’t hardly get the words out of my mouth. I was a cryin’ fool.

    And then, each of them were dunked. When they came back to the surface the place erupted into celebratory noise.

    Oh, the awesome noise…

    Before we ended our time, I said: “The Spirit sometimes works is ways that aren’t scripted. I want to give you all the opportunity to respond if the Spirit is nudging you this morning. Is there anybody else that wants to be baptized?”

    After a moment of awkward silence, I was about to open my mouth and say, “Okay, well, let’s close in prayer” when a couple spoke up and said, “My wife would like to be baptized.” And with a sense of appropriateness, our community encouraged them into the water where the husband declared that they both needed to be baptized and commit together to a conversion in their very own marriage. They were both baptized at the same time – baptized into the reality that God desires to redeem and renew their marriage in addition to them as individuals.

    And there was another individual: Herb. Herb, a 39 year old highly functioning mentally handicapped gentleman who has been a part of our community for over a year, has been badgering us for six months that he wants to be baptized. He asks almost every week. So with his tennis shoes and sweat pants on, he walked down into the water for his turn. He shared his story in only the way Herb could. And others spoke into Herb’s life from the banks of the creek.

    Five people baptized – three more than we originally expected – making a public statement of voluntarily dying to themselves and yielding to the work of the Spirit in their lives. Their stories shared, their lives spoken into, their act celebrated, their bodies drenched and their souls renewed to the work of the life, death and resurrection of Christ. I remember thinking to myself as I’m in the water: now this is what baptism is supposed to be!

    I’m so grateful for our little community. And I’m so grateful for the ways the Spirit of God showed up yesterday morning to show his work evidently among us. I hope we can celebrate the work of Christ in our lives like this again.

    What a morning.

    So what do we do? Keep on sinning so God can keep on forgiving? I should hope not! If we’ve left the country where sin is sovereign, how can we still live in our old house there? Or didn’t you realize we packed up and left there for good? That is what happened in baptism. When we went under the water, we left the old country of sin behind; when we came up out of the water, we entered into the new country of grace—a new life in a new land!

    That’s what baptism into the life of Jesus means. When we are lowered into the water, it is like the burial of Jesus; when we are raised up out of the water, it is like the resurrection of Jesus. Each of us is raised into a light-filled world by our Father so that we can see where we’re going in our new grace-sovereign country.

    Could it be any clearer? Our old way of life was nailed to the cross with Christ, a decisive end to that sin-miserable life—no longer at sin’s every beck and call! What we believe is this: If we get included in Christ’s sin-conquering death, we also get included in his life-saving resurrection. We know that when Jesus was raised from the dead it was a signal of the end of death-as-the-end. Never again will death have the last word. When Jesus died, he took sin down with him, but alive he brings God down to us. From now on, think of it this way: Sin speaks a dead language that means nothing to you; God speaks your mother tongue, and you hang on every word. You are dead to sin and alive to God. That’s what Jesus did.”

    -Romans 6, The Message

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  • Yearning to be the church God wants us to become

    July 30, 2010 // 1 Comment

    This was a prayer that was read in a recent gathering at our church. It was so poignant and right on that I thought it was worth sharing:

    God,

    We yearn to be the church you want us to become.

    Shape us into something beautiful

    We recognize that you are the Potter and we are the clay

    Please continue to mold us into the image of Christ

    We want to join in what you are already doing in the world.

    In our worship and life together, in our ministry and service to others,

    we want to give people a glimpse of your intentions for the whole world.

    Help us to welcome the outcasts, love our enemies, and form a Community

    that is visibly different from the culture around us

    as a sign of what you are doing in the world.

    Help us experience your love and grace, grow in our relationship with Jesus,

    and experience the power of your Spirit,

    as we offer your good news to others.

    In Jesus’ name we pray

    Amen.

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  • Create-a-caption contest

    July 28, 2010 // 3 Comments

    Task: To describe what’s going on in this picture…

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  • Lifeguards who love their whistles a bit too much

    July 26, 2010 // 1 Comment

    A little over a week ago my family went to a community pool/water park.

    We had a fantastic day. Carter (our three-and-a-half year old) had a great time and, as a dad, it was a great joy to see him having so much fun. But one thing I noticed: the lifeguards love their whistles. These teenagers use them often.

    I know deep down that the job of a life guard is a noble one: to protect and save people’s lives who are in danger in the water. Water can be dangerous. People drown every year. Safety is their number one objective. I get that. But what I didn’t sense was that the lifeguards’ job description included this line: make sure people have a good experience. Here’s what we experienced in our first time at the pool:

    -There were whistles every couple of minutes followed by shouts of “No running!” It’s a perfectly good rule, but its hard for little kids to hold back their excitement at a water park.

    -Later in the day, I did a backflip off the diving board. When I reached the surface of the water the lifeguard blew the whistle at me and said loudly, “No flips off the diving board!” (What? What kind of pool is this? No flips on a diving board? This is crazy!) His tone and body language was demeaning, as if he were saying “You should know this already.” The problem is I didn’t. I was a first timer.

    -After a few hours Carter worked up enough courage to want to jump off the diving board and into my arms. When it was his turn, I went down the ladder, positioned myself under the board, treaded water, held my hands up and encouraged Carter to jump. And right before he jumped another lifeguard whistled me and said, “He’s too young. He hasn’t passed a swimming test. He’s not allowed to jump off the diving board!” Sheesh… I felt stupid once again being a first timer.

    -One shallow section of one of the kiddie pools had pipes that shot water into the air. An older gentleman innocently stuck his foot over the pipe to see it spray in a different direction. Another whistle: “No touching the water pipes!” Unbelievable…

    By the end of the day I wanted to call them the “NoFunGuards.”

    But it made me wonder: we’re called into a God-initiated adventurous life of great excitement…and then we set up a bunch of rules for people to follow that are intended to keep people safe.

    I’m beginning to believe that an unbelieving world thinks that Christians, Christian leaders and/or pastors are nothing more than a bunch of lifeguards at the water park.

    Agree or disagree?

    How do we make sure that we don’t become lifeguards who love our whistles just a bit too much?

    What are your thoughts?

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  • Parents: what were you thinking??

    July 23, 2010 // 0 Comments

    Have you ever heard a person’s name and thought, Is that really their name? Did I hear that correctly? What parent would actually name their child that? What were they thinking??

    Yep. We’ve all got “the list.” Here’s an article (and a book!) you should read that is the most comprehensive list of confirmed weird names given to people.

    You’re welcome.

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  • Is your church developmental?

    July 21, 2010 // 0 Comments

    Church leaders: here’s a great post by Dr. Bill Donahue that’s worth pondering on creating an environmental approach in your church. Check it out.

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  • Dunbar’s Missional Journal

    July 20, 2010 // 0 Comments

    Dr. Dave Dunbar, president of Biblical Seminary, just published another edition of the Missional Journal that’s worth your time.

    Also, check out the video on the seminary homepage on the left-hand side called Why I Chose Biblical. It’s got a few of my friends in it.

    Speaking of Biblical Seminary, if all goes as planned, I’ll complete my degree (MA in Missional Theology) and graduate this spring. It’s been a good experience thus far. I hope I can finish well.

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